Choey Memorial Scholarship Fund, Inc.
Joe Kucher

Joe Kucher


Over the years, we have raised a significant amount of money through both the Choey Memorial Pentathlon and the Choey Memorial Golf Outing.  The events keep growing, the amount of money continues to increase, and the number of people attending these two events climb every year.

The Joseph H. Kucher Scholarship is given each year to a graduating senior from Port Jervis High School.   The recipient must show a strong effort in academics, should be active in extracurricular activities, and have other interests within the community.  Also, all applicants must submit a single page essay on the value of family and friends.

The Joseph H. Kucher Scholarship was started in 1995 for the amount of $250.00.  The scholarship has grown over the years as contributions to the endowment fund have allowed us to increase the money given each year.  From its humble beginnings, The Joseph H. Kucher Scholarship is now the 3rd largest scholarship given at Port Jervis high School.  This year, a graduating senior will be awarded $1000.00/year for four years of college, a total of $4,000.00.

We would like to take this time to explain why this is so important to all of us.

I met Joe Kucher in 1st grade.  I was having a sneezing fit, as I have been known to do on occasion, and I didn’t have a tissue.  Joe, being the good little boy, had a handkerchief he let me use.  I proceeded to blow my nose and then give Joe his handkerchief back.  Joe looked at it, thanked me and put it back into his pocket.  That was one of Joe’s favorite stories.  There are literally hundreds of stories with Joe as the focal point.

It is difficult to describe Joe Kucher, he really was special.  You can try to use adjectives like nice, kind, loyal, hard working, funny, generous, smart, religious, and loving.  Unfortunately, these words don’t come close to summing up what this man was to all of us.  There has never been another person I have ever met, read about, or seen on TV that remotely comes close to what Joe Kucher was an individual.  He was never without a compliment, a man that had high ideals, an individual with deep moral values, and a loyal, cherished friend.

Joe was killed on the way home from a celebration for a friend of ours who had just graduated from the police academy.  As seemed to always be the case, Joe was the responsible one.  He was the designated driver so that his girlfriend, his cousin from Europe on vacation, and his cousin’s friend could enjoy themselves at the party.  Joe and his car full of friends left late that night, followed by his brother Mike and Mike’s fiancée Keri in the car behind.  Following in a separate car were Mike’s roommates John and Joe.  Unfortunately, four miles from the party, a truck driven by a drunk driver, crossed over into Joe’s lane and hit the car head on.  Mike was the first person at the accident scene.  After getting his brother out of the car, Joe died that night in Mike’s arms.  It still is a very painful memory for all that knew and loved Joe.

To the people that knew Joe, these events allow us to keep Joe’s memory alive.  We put aside our busy schedules and share smiles, laughs, and sometimes tears remembering the man that meant so much to us.  For those who never had the privilege of meeting Joe, it is an opportunity to get together with old friends and hopefully make a few new ones along the way.

 
 
 

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